A month ago, New York magazine published my essay about being awkward at sex parties. It was very well-received and I was asked to do a few podcasts to talk about lesbian orgies and social awkwardness and sometimes haikus. I also received many “OMG me too!” messages, which was oddly comforting, and tips for how to improve my “game.” My favorite tip was from my friend Avry, and we are calling it “Donald Ducking.” You can learn about it on NY mag’s “Sex Lives” podcast here:

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Here’s me on Playboy Radio’s “Ask the Doc” show, which also has the amazing Carol Queen talking about anal sex!

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Happy Hump Day!