In May of this year, I answered a Redeye advice question from a queer teen about the common refrain, “It gets better,” (coined by Dan Savage and his husband, and is also now an excellent youth support nonprofit). Because the holidays are a struggle for a great many people, and […]

Does it really “get better”? Advice to a queer teenager

Kelsey Beyer, my super-talented and amazing girlfriend, added some lesbian cat prints of images from our book on her Etsy shop  and you should buy them if… You love cats or art or queer women or tea or glasses or sex toys or sex generally or poetry or philosophy or kink or therapy or […]

Get this for your crush and then RUN AWAY

Gay marriage edition Prop 8 overturned! Tie some cans to my Chevy! Oh fuck, nevermind. ________ Related: Haiku for Adulthood #5 Haiku for Adulthood #4 Haiku for Adulthood #3 Haiku for Adulthood #2

Haiku for Adulthood #6

Happy Valentine’s Day, y’all! Today is when we celebrate our devotion to partially hydrogenated corn syrup and our hopefully still functioning livers. And love! Regardless of whether you’re single or coupled or triaded (?) or bumping uglies with a fence post, I wish you all a glorious VD, with the […]

Love or referrals appreciated

From Jezebel: Scott James of the New York Times reports that 50% of the 556 male couples in a San Francisco State University study “have sex outside their relationships, with the knowledge and approval of their partners.” Quote of the day: …part of the fight for gay marriage involves convincing […]

is non-monogamy hurting the same-sex movement?