I write a lot of things each week — far too much to include here — but here’s a short sample. If you want a more streamlined version, keep in touch with my newsletter.
Essays
My mother is Native American, but I look white. My identity is more than my DNA.–The Washington Post
I’m always the wallflower at the orgy – New York magazine
Nothing is wrong with you – Medium
The only way to love a married woman
Opinions
Why won’t Orange Is the New Black acknowledge bisexuality?
Journalism
The Power of No, East Bay Express
A new wave of consent-based intimacy events and communities are reshaping the sexual and sensual landscape in the East Bay.
Reinventing the Wheels, East Bay Express
In the male-dominated sport, female skaters in the Bay Area and beyond are creating their own cultures, challenging stereotypes, and inspiring others along the way.
Advice
“Here are the names of some of my favorite advice columnists: Cary Tennis, Anna Pulley, Dan Savage…” — Cheryl Strayed, author of Wild, Tiny Beautiful Things, and Torch
Ask Anna Column, Chicago Tribune
Favorites
I want to dump my girlfriend because she’s poor.
How to ask for more foreplay: Is it too much to ask? Of course not, but you have to actually do the asking. I know, it seems weird to tell your boyfriend that sex should last longer than heating up a Hot Pocket, but well, stranger things have happened.
Coping with getting dumped. Plus, what is roller derby exactly?
Sex Writing
Salon
AlterNet
Elsewhere
Mother Jones
East Bay Express
SF Weekly
The Rumpus
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