Poly wanna what? Reshaping the debate on polyamory The cover story of today’s RedEye is all about polyamory. Other articles include a glossary of poly lingo and a resource guide for Chicagoans on, among other things, where poly peeps go to sing karaoke:The PolyChi Yahoo! Group, founded in the late […]

polyamory in the RedEye, autoerotic asphyxiation and more!

A look at the website, Cheater News, where people can anonymously post revenge stories, insults and grooming tips for those they have been wronged by. Favorite quote: Back in late Dec. 2005, I left Laura M. Why? Laura is the P@ssy trap And someone even uses the “you have a […]

cheater news – harmless? pointless? justice?

Check out a review of Holly Hughes’ performance, courtesy of Ammie: Back when I was a babydyke and still in the “everything queer is automatically awesome” stage, I bought my then-girlfriend a copy of Holly Hughes’ Clit Notes: A Sapphic Sampler, which is a collection of the lesbian performance artist’s […]

Holly Hughes preaches to the perverted at Northwestern

This is the first “angry letter” I’ve ever received from a bar review. “What were you thinking? it’s obvious you were never at the original Touche when it was on Lincoln Ave. Touche in Rogers Park is a dirty-stinky hole in the wall, where most of the male Ho’s hang […]

in which i am blamed for the spread of HIV

Sex toys have been around in one form or another since the invention of the cucumber. They’ve been uncovered at archeological digs, appear on ancient Greek vases, and are even mentioned in the bible: “You also took the fine jewelry I gave you, the jewelry made of my gold and […]

Sermon on The Mount

I’ve been reviewing a bunch of (mostly terrible) lesbian movies for this year’s queer film fest, Reeling. You can read them here and here. I’m a masochist, so watching these movies is something of a ritual for me, though this year’s film selections are leaving me pretty hard-up for nice […]

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