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Getting laid off (twice) was the best thing that happened ...

Welcome to installation two of Book Clubbed. If you missed installation one and/or don’t know what the hell I’m talking about, go here and enjoy Ammie’s review of Bastard Out of Carolina.  To continue our theme of books that devastate, I present to you a review on Joan Didion‘s The […]

Book Clubbed: Joan Didion’s The Year of Magical Thinking

I love books. On my OkCupid profile, I say that books are my dominatrix. Nothing inspires me more, influences my writing, speaks to my soul, verbs my cliche noun, etc.  And yet, I never seem to write about books. I’m trying to be better about that. I wrote one review […]

Book Clubbed: Dorothy Allison’s Bastard Out of Carolina

I just finished this quirky book, The Chairs Are Where The People Go, by Misha Glouberman and Sheila Heti. It’s basically Glouberman’s thoughts on topics he’s interested in. There’s a chapter on spam filters, for instance. There are chapters on monogamy, smoking, how to arrange the chairs at events, and […]

The Invisible Struggle

#205 I’m used to the women I date being straight, but never straightforward. ____________ #206 I’ll never forget our first meeting. You spoke to my very soul: Hoooooooooooooonk! ____________ #207 It’s redundant to say you’re gay and that you majored in Theater Tech. ____________ Plus, at AlterNet I tried to figure out […]

Haiku for Adulthood: Quickies

#144 It’s raining in S.F. — each drop’s hushed refrain sounds like the end of waiting. ________ #145 Bind my arms, love. What is inexhaustible requires no defense. ________ #146 Wish you were the woman sharing my bed, and not Eudora Welty. ________ #147 It’s your suspense that makes me […]

Haiku for Adulthood: Pour Me